By Kate Good

Kate lives with her husband and their three cats and use to drink quite a bit of bourbon before she got pregnant. She frequently gets through tough days by asking herself, “what would Pam Poovey do?”

  1. The Toast's previous coverage of trans* issues can be found here.  Author's note: My husband has read, corrected, commented on, and supported this piece. I can't write his story, only my experiences. My husband and I didn't have a honeymoon. The closest we got was a trip to the southwest, ten months after our wedding, to a rented condo and a private hospital where he would have his second round of female-to-male surgery: hysterectomy, oophorectomy,…