
What refugees pack for the voyage:
Houthayfa is not bringing much to sea. First, he hasn’t a lot to take with him – most of his valuables were left behind in Syria. Second, he’s been told the smugglers discourage taking all but the essentials. On such crammed boats, keeping the weight down is vital to keeping the boat afloat.
He’ll take a black jacket, to keep him warm during the nights. A big bottle of water, to keep him hydrated. As proof of identity, he’ll have his nearly-expired passport and a government booklet detailing his military service.
Reading The Guardian‘s Europe news has been my first stop for following the refugee crisis, but I would love to know yours.
What went down with Roxane and Erica Jong (Roxane is a SAINT):
Jong’s response began rather differently. “I also want to say that anybody who says that feminism is only a white thing is ignorant of the history of feminism,” she began. She mentioned blues singers, black abolitionists, and black female civil rights leaders, “who were all passionate feminists beyond any white women you could name”.
Jong said she thought anyone who claimed otherwise was speaking from “historical ignorance. “We have a long tradition of people of colour, of women of colour, being feminists,” Jong insisted. “A long tradition.”
When Gay agreed but reminded Jong that mainstream feminism has historically excluded women of colour, the audience clapped. Jong, apparently taken aback,demanded: “And I don’t know – are you talking about me?”
Gay answered simply, and almost consolingly, “No.”
In New York and Los Angeles, the simulated patients are often actors; here, in eastern Virginia, they are part-time or former professors, baristas, retail workers and house spouses, all contract workers paid by the session, and not extraordinarily so. Gliva-McConvey, the program director, said wages were confidential but added, “All I can say is, we don’t pay them enough.”
Vocabulary becomes hugely important to avoiding clumsy wording. Teachers are taught to neutralize sexual language — it’s a “table,” not a “bed”; a “drape,” not a “sheet” — and cut back on awkward phrases: Say “footrests” instead of the too-equestrian “stirrups”; “lots of pressure” instead of “this is going to hurt.” Students aren’t supposed to “grab,” “stick in” or “pull out” anything, though in the moment, instructor Kelene Williams said with a laugh, “sometimes neutral doesn’t come out.”
This lovely man, Rob Gough, who we just lost to cancer on August 29th, the day before his 42nd birthday, was a dear member of my family, and he did SO much to raise money for other people, and I would love it if some of you could help his wife and kids, who are obviously swamped with both grief and uncertainty, and this is a tough dang world. Prayers and good vibes appreciated too! But money definitely wouldn’t hurt, and it would mean a lot to me personally for you guys to help.
Beejoli Shah taked to Andre “Bubbles From The Wire But Also So Much Else” and they hung out and it was magical:
He continues to wind his way through the all-white futuristic display case, as an older Russian woman sifting through a nearby rack of sweatpants exerts exactly the least effort possible to pretend she didn’t hear Royo hypothesizing on the trendiness of his teenage daughter’s sexuality. In a space not much bigger than a shipping container, Royo has already canvassed the room twice, while running through his feelings on homosexuality (for), smartphones (against, he still uses a flip phone), and the neighborhood loveshack he used to run as a teenager (“The best!”). And we’ve only been shopping for three minutes.
My friend Carrie’s puppy is sitting on a couch:
Fun feminist web series Kickstarter alert! She’s a Friend of The Toast.
Game of Thrones casting season came late this year, but it currently appears to be in full swing. Days after Danish actor Pilou Asbæk was cast as Euron Greyjoy, BuzzFeed reports that unREAL‘s Freddie Stroma has joined the cast as Dickon Tarly, younger brother of our beloved Samwell. (In the Game of Thrones books, he’s supposed to be about 13; in real life, Stroma is 28, a year older than John Bradley-West.) Dickon has not yet appeared in the books, but he’s described as everything poor Sam is not: In the words of the leaked season-six casting breakdown, he is “athletic, a good hunter, an excellent swordsman, manly, not particularly bright, but the favorite child of the father.” Stroma is also known for playing Cormac McLaggen in the Harry Potter films, so this latest role does not seem like too much of a stretch.
WHAT! HE WAS CORMAC? WHOA.
Speaking of perfect things like unREAL, unREAL is perfect and you have to watch it right now.
Whenever I’m having a bad day, I read the wikipedia article for the high five. pic.twitter.com/RonWOFPSlY
— Dana Schwartz (@DanaSchwartzzz) May 16, 2015
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literarysara 119p · 500 weeks ago
Erica Jong, TRY to keep up!
ArsenioB_Ham 125p · 500 weeks ago
ETA: Also, Roxane Gay is a transcendent angel for replying "no" to Jong's #NotAllWhiteFeminists instead of saying, "Yes, probably."
PunnyDreadful 128p · 500 weeks ago
Also, why is every Onion-knockoff site on the internet so absolutely piss-poor. You wouldn't think the fake-news style would be so hard to pull off but every Portly Gazelle/Daily Currant/ whatever else seems to be written by people with only a cursory knowledge of the human pastime of hum-or.
daisymerolling 120p · 500 weeks ago
All this happened right by my college and Im so upset I had to miss it.
Part of our mission as New, Young Feminists™, I believe (as a 17 yr old), is to reeducate those who came before us respectfully.
Bottom line: Intersectionality is thing and we need to make sure people know this.
kilks401 119p · 500 weeks ago
Riiiight, like no one knew of Sojourner Truth before Gloria Steinem. huh.
summerestherson 113p · 500 weeks ago
ppyajunebug 137p · 500 weeks ago
Apparently my whole family watched all of it this weekend. My mother informed me that they all loved it even though she's never seen the Bachelor and they thought it was going to be a light and funny comedy. Oops?
aqwaplop 143p · 500 weeks ago
Alli525 111p · 500 weeks ago
“Nobody even knew what GTAs were,” she said. “I got one guy who looked me up and down and said, ‘Sounds intriguing.’ ”
OH LOOK IT'S THE FIRST DAY OF THE WORK WEEK AND I ALREADY WANT TO MURDER ALL MEN (#MURDERALLMEN).
Frumiosa 141p · 500 weeks ago
plspassthePinot 121p · 500 weeks ago
cosetthetable 121p · 500 weeks ago
winterbymorning 133p · 500 weeks ago
Not... really?
In totally irrelevant news - I missed yesterday's open thread because I didn't think there'd be one - husband and I are moving in the spring, and as I was idly looking around to see what's available in this neighbourhood, I found a promising building just a few blocks away and glanced at their floor plans. Their 2-bedroom units have a walk-in closet in the master bedroom with its own en-suite bathroom. I have never lived anywhere with more than one bathroom, so this prospect is extremely exciting to me. If they don't have any apartments available in February/March I will be heartbroken.
Merripat 115p · 500 weeks ago
houblonchouffe 123p · 500 weeks ago
Apart from that, my weekend was almost entirely shitty and stressful until yesterday afternoon, when many things fell into place, and today I picked up our marriage license.
geekcrackteam 118p · 500 weeks ago
http://www.buzzfeed.com/kimberleydadds/tom-hardy-...
jimmyjimjimjim 113p · 500 weeks ago
jenvsworld 99p · 500 weeks ago
jtradke 117p · 500 weeks ago
"my dear sweet children if you might just sit calmly as perforce I bring to light some history which may surprise you"
commentingcommenter · 500 weeks ago
RudyRed 124p · 500 weeks ago
"Royo moves on to what arguably has been the most terrifying part of shooting Empire in Chicago: the weather. 'It’s my first time in Chicago, and I’m loving it,' he says. 'I’m in the Gold Coast, right next door to a lake with a beach. But Chicago people, they know I’m not from here. They’ll come up to me and ask, "Are you having a good time?" and I tell them, "Yeah, man! Loving it! Chicago is great!" And they always go "Winter. Is. Coming." I feel like I’m on Game of Thrones.'"
This is a 100% accurate depiction of Chicagoans' relationship with the weather.
viviennestreet 106p · 500 weeks ago
jlper 125p · 500 weeks ago
Sherman Alexie responds here.
GreenGrasses 121p · 500 weeks ago
Andre Royo sounds hilarious and amazing. I want to be his friend!!!
LezzyBeaverman 94p · 500 weeks ago
mkpatter 114p · 500 weeks ago
aqueousmedium 105p · 500 weeks ago
http://www.failbettergames.com/supporting-medecin...
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