So You Have an STD: The Herpes Edition

herpesThis is the second in a three-part series. Part I, on HPV, can be found here.

Name: Herpes Simplex Virus, HSV-2, genital herpes

Science Facts: a double-stranded DNA virus

Prevalence: 15-16% of adults in the US (around 25% in women, 12% in men)

Symptoms: a prodrome (meaning a period before symptoms show up when you can feel local pain), during which you can have itching or burning of the skin around the genitals. This will be followed by an eruption of one or more vesicles, which are blister-like bumps filled with yellow or clear fluid, with red skin underneath. Over a few days, these vesicles will burst, causing the bump to turn into an ulcer, which is still painful.

What’s The Worst Case Scenario? The Most Common Scenario: This is what a typical herpes infection looks like.

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You’ll have a prodrome, which is where you’ll have localized burning or itching for a few days before you start noticing some raised bumps. These bumps typically look like blisters, filled with yellow fluid, with the skin underneath them looking red. All the yellow fluid is herpes virus, so DON’T POP IT because that fluid is very infective. These vesicles will often burst on their own, leading to small ulcers. During this time period, both during the prodrome, as well as during the lesions and ulcers themselves, you are very infectious and should refrain from all sexual contact.

The bad news: Herpes cannot be cured. Unlike a bacteria, which we can wipe out with antibiotics, or a virus like HPV, which the immune system usually clears on its own, HSV has a nasty habit of migrating into neurons & living there forever.

The Super Worst Case Scenario: Herpetic encephalitis, a very rare complication where herpes can get into the bloodstream and cause disseminated infection. If this infection gets into your brain, it can cause brain swelling (called encephalitis), which can cause seizures and death. This is so unlikely I feel kind of guilty for telling you about it. It’s much more likely in newborns who were born vaginally to mothers having a very severe first-time outbreak, because newborns have no immune system. You can pass it along even when you aren’t having an outbreak. This is called ‘asymptomatic shedding’, and occurs most frequently in the first year you have herpes.

The worst time to get herpes for the first time is during pregnancy, specifically in the third trimester. Newborns are at a very high risk of getting HSV if they pass through a vagina that has any herpetic lesions because again, the lesions are very infectious. In newborns, who have little to no immune system, it’s much easier for herpes to spread to the brain and cause encephalitis or meningitis, which can kill newborns. This is why it’s important to let your OB/GYN know if you have any remote history of herpes, no matter how long it’s been since outbreaks. Your OB will do a thorough pelvic exam to check for current lesions, and if you have any history of prodrome or lesions, we’ll put you on antiviral therapy as you get close to delivery to prevent any outbreaks. But even if you do come in pregnant with herpes lesions, we can mitigate the risk to baby by doing a C-section, so the baby doesn’t come in contact with the infectious lesions. The worst case scenario is a primary outbreak that happens right after delivery—meaning the baby was exposed before the lesions had a chance to develop and is at very high risk. I have, very unfortunately, seen this happen, with some tragic outcomes. If you, or your partner, have ANY remote history of HSV, let your obstetrician know!

What’s the Treatment? Luckily, we have several drugs to suppress herpes and stop you from having an outbreak, as well as decrease the frequency and amount of virus shed in genital secretions, which makes you less infectious. There are three drugs we use, all in the same family–acyclovir, vancyclovir, and famciclovir. You can take them as needed, meaning just when you have a prodrome and feel symptoms coming on or have onset of lesions. If you are with a partner who is HSV negative and want to avoid passing the virus back and forth, you can also take these drugs as daily suppressive therapy to stop outbreaks and decrease viral shedding, decreasing the likelihood that you can transmit HSV to your partner. HSV can still be passed in genital fluids even when you are asymptomatic, without prodrome or lesions, so use a condom. HSV can have skin-to-skin transmission, like HPV, so a condom is not a 100% guarantee that you won’t get herpes. To reduce risk to your partner, definitely avoid sex when you have an active outbreak, take daily immunosuppressive therapy, and use protection.

Nicole, Please Reassure Me, I Feel Horrible: I’m here for you. I worked in a herpes lab for three years and got lectures on herpes daily. The herpesvirus has been around, evolutionarily speaking, as long as there have been human beings. There are actually eight types that infect humans (also there are herpesviruses that infect almost every species in which we’ve looked for it!), and my boss—a man who had spent his entire 30+ year career working with herpes—was convinced that most humans had been exposed to all of them, including HSV-2, the one that causes genital lesions. HSV is so common that having a positive blood test isn’t very useful, because you can become exposed and develop antibodies without ever having a primary outbreak. Herpes, like HPV, is nearly ubiquitous—if you go by blood tests. By some estimates, more than 90% of the world is seropositive for HSV, because herpes is a very clever virus that has coevolved for millions of years to live in humans. However, a positive blood test for HSV often doesn’t correlate with what we actually mean when we say ‘genital herpes’—the itchy, painful, infectious bumps. This is both bad and good news, because that means you can have herpes and pass it along without ever knowing you had it because you never developed symptoms. Some people can have a primary infection that presents with one or two lesions, or some itching and burning, and not the dozens of little bumps you see in the picture above. The lesion can happen inside the vagina, on inner labia or vaginal wall, where you can’t see it and would never notice. And often health care providers don’t routinely test for it, because the antibody test being positive isn’t a good indicator of clinical status.

This picture sounds pretty bleak, I know! “Nicole, you’re telling me that I can have herpes without knowing it, that I can pass it along without knowing it, and that I might not ever get tested for it even if I ask?!” And I’m afraid the answer is yes. However, there’s a reason we go by clinical status with herpes infections. If you haven’t had a bad outbreak, chances are you can’t pass on a virus to your partner that causes a bad outbreak. Just like there are different strains of HPV, there are different strains of HSV with different clinical courses. If you do become infected with a type that produces an infection so subclinical that you don’t know you have it, the chance that you pass it along to someone else means they will likely get the same type of infection—one that is so small, and asymptomatic, that they won’t even know it’s there. The age old puzzle of “if you have a disease but no symptoms, do you really have a disease?” is brought up every time someone has a positive HSV blood test but no history of symptoms. On the other hand, if you have a primary infection that is very symptomatic, with many lesions, lots of burning and itching beforehand, then the type of infection you’ll pass to your partners could be just as symptomatic.

Here’s some good news: the first infection is the worst. Most people get one outbreak of herpes during the primary infection, which can present with painful lesions pictured above, and then the immune system clears that infection and the virus lives latent in your nerve cells. You can have outbreaks again because that virus in your nerve cells can become active, reproducing and traveling down to the skin where it causes symptoms, but over time that virus generally becomes less active. The first six months of infection is the most high-risk time, both for reactivation (secondary lesions erupting on the skin) and for shedding (the virus will be present in genital secretions). Many people have a primary outbreak and never develop symptoms again. Even if you only have one outbreak in your life, you still have herpes and can still pass it along to partners, so it’s important to disclose every time. But over time, most outbreaks become less severe or stop entirely. You’ll be able to go years without an outbreak.

The most important thing to tell you is that 99% of the problems caused by herpes are social. This virus is not damaging to your body. It will not cause cancer, it will not kill you. It will just live inside your cells, hanging out with you, for the rest of your life. For most people, herpes is just an annoyance, a couple days of itching and no sex before it goes away on its own. It won’t make your genitals fall off, it won’t cause infertility or harm your family for generations to come. With suppressive regimens, you can stop outbreaks before they even happen. In medical terms, herpes is not a big deal. Herpes is harmful because of the social stigma attached to it, because in a sex negative society where STDs are treated like a punishment instead of a disease, herpes is visible and doesn’t go away.

Here’s the Etiquette:

  1. Tell your partners. Most STDs are easily curable and the ones that aren’t curable can be very well controlled or suppressed with medication. Only by not telling someone are you putting them at increased health risk. If you don’t want to tell them, talk to your health care provider, because STDs diagnoses are reportable to local health officials. If you can provide a list of partners, then the health department can call those individuals and let them know anonymously that they have been exposed to someone with an STD and need to see their doctor.
  2. There’s often a window after diagnosis & treatment when you should avoid having sex, because it takes some time for the infection to clear from your system. You don’t want to pass it along during that window to someone who could keep giving it back to you (we call this ‘ping-pong infection’).
  3. If you get one STD, we highly recommend co-testing for other STDs, including HIV. The risk factors are the same for all of them. All, including HIV, syphilis, trichomonas, crabs, lice, scabies, and bacterial vaginosis, can be cured or medically managed.
  4. Be considerate. Use condoms with your partners every time.

 

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16 Comments

  1. poppy +20

    What a great article! Thanks for writing it. There are so many misconceptions about herpes among my patients (I’m a primary care physician).

    two other points:

    1. HSV-1, which causes mouth herpes, can occur on the genitals and HSV-2 can occur in the mouth. So you should avoid oral sex if you or your partner have active mouth herpes as well. (Cold sores are not the same as mouth herpes; your doctor can help you figure out the difference.)
    2. Herpes lesions increase the risk of getting other STDs, especially HIV. So even if, God forbid, you were one of those people who couldn’t care less what happened to your partner, you should avoid sex during an outbreak to protect yourself.

    1. bitter.sour +12

      Hm… as someone afflicted with frequent outbreaks of cold sores, I’ve always been told that cold sores and mouth herpes ARE the same thing. What would the difference be?

      1. poppy +8

        Well, what most people call cold sores are apthous ulcers. They usually are single or maybe a couple but not near each other and they occur only on the mucosa. They start out red and then develop a white or gray coating.

        Herpes lesions usually happen in groups and occur on mucosa or skin near the lips. They start as fluid-filled blisters and then turn reddish.

        Sometimes it is hard to tell the difference but the doctor may be able to do a swab.

        1. bitter.sour +18

          Oh, I see what you’re talking about. I’ve always called those in-mouth ulcers “canker sores” and the ones on the lips “cold sores,” so it just seems to be a variation in the common name for these things.

  2. longlostlullaby +15

    I don’t know if anyone can confirm this or has heard it too, but I remember reading once that herpes used to just be a thing a lot of people had and didn’t freak out about and it was just a thing that was annoying sometimes. And then a company wanted to sell herpes drugs and made it into this terrible STD you should be ashamed of, and now there’s a stigma around it.

    I would be completely unsurprised if this were true and also completely unsurprised if it was something made up by people who are against “big pharma”.

  3. Medusa

    This is sort of unrelated, but I’ve heard another type of herpes is related to Bell’s Palsy?

    1. Melli +2

      I believe there are folks studying the link between HSV-1 (oral: aka cold sores) spread to the brain and it’s relation to Bell’s Palsy.
      Good news folks – GENITAL herpes does not cause Bell’s Palsy (or anything bad, actually). – medically, oral herpes is more serious due to its proximity to the brain.

      1. Irene

        I actually know someone who has had both genital herpes and Bell’s Palsy, but it’s probably a coincidence, given that Bell’s is fairly common.

    2. mkatjones +1

      I have Bell’s Palsy, at onset I was a grade 5 and I’m now at a grade 3.
      http://www.politicsandmedicine.com/housebrackman….

      I’m almost 4 years in now, being one of the lucky 30% that didn’t recover within months. I don’t have genital or mouth herpes. Go figure. I did get it the day before I gave birth to my last baby, pregnancy is a known factor but no clue why.

  4. Angela +15

    This series has been great so far and I hope it continues in the future. One thing that would be really helpful is more discussion of how women can protect themselves/their partners during non-PIV sex. The skin-to-skin contact information is helpful, but what does that mean in practice? And are levels of risk different for women having sex with women (well, I should say vagina-having people, although I don’t know that a lot of the data available does a good job of characterizing trans people’s experiences)? Though I’m not sure how much STD-specific information is available for this kind of thing, as advice I’ve seen tends to be general good practice for saying safe and healthy.

    Alsooo are we still calling BV an STD? I thought the consensus was that this is the type of issue, like a UTI, that can be caused by sex but isn’t necessarily sexually transmitted.

  5. oldsampeabody

    Most people, really? I've been getting canker sores (apthous ulcers) and cold sores (HSV-1, mouth herpes, fever blisters) for the majority of my life. Both are a pain in the mouth to have, but they feel completely different to me and I would never use the two interchangeably. I have to admit that when I read "Cold sores are not the same as mouth herpes," I had a pretty strong NOPE reaction.

    I think these particular common names cause a lot of confusion among the general public—and that can lead to people with active herpes outbreaks on their lips thinking that they're not contagious because they've been told that cold sores and canker sores are the same irritating but benign, nontransmittable thing. Which is not the case.

    It would be great if there wasn't such a stigma attached to this virus. (Thank you, Nicole, for doing your part to stop that!)

  6. Melli +6

    Great article, but I do have one critique.
    You begin speaking about seropositivity, but it becomes convoluted when you mentioned that someone can be positive for herpes, but that its not “genital herpes”. True – you could test positive, and it can be oral herpes, but from my understanding, its either you have the virus or you don’t, its not wishy washy. However, it is true that you can have herpes – HSV1 or HSV2 – and show no symptoms. Some people are studying and postulating that some people are more symptomatic than others – so while there may be different strains of HSV, there are also different reactions from people – so an asymptomatic person (someone who never got any bumps or signs of disease) could pass HSV2 to someone without knowing, and that partner might get symptoms.

    When 80% of people WITH the virus have no idea they have it, then the above scenario is pretty common for those who are “clinically” diagnosed. The social situation for them is not fair, because even if the symptoms go away, they are still considered infectious, while the folks with no symptoms who gave it to them in the first place, will continue without a clue.

  7. enness +5

    what are the transmission rates, when herpes are asymptomatic, between 2 folks with vaginas? are barriers (gloves/dams) recommended always?
    there is so much less discussion about barriers between queer folks (who aren’t cis-men)… and “use a condom every time!” can leave a lot of doors closed for a lots of people’s sexual lives.

  8. Melissa +1

    Thank you for writing on this with a positive perspective, we need more of that in the media!

    One of my special areas of focus as a psychotherapist is working with clients struggling with the stigma of a herpes diagnosis. I just wanted to mention that many of my clients contracted symptomatic herpes from a partner who didn’t know they were infected. In other words, their symptoms weren’t similar to their partner’s symptoms. Just some food for thought.

    Keep doing great work!

  9. dinah +1

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