We were born from this bruise, their marriage. Soon my father died, and I was awake and lying on the pullout couch watching Saturday Night Live for the first time. I was ten years old. O.J. Simpson was the host. The musical guest was Ricki Lee Jones. Chuck E.’s in Love. Her beret. Long hair and teeth. The next morning I would fly in an airplane for the first time. I drank ginger ale and…