If you are the kind of person who lives in a home with air conditioning and a dishwasher, please see yourself as serenely out the door as you entered it. For the rest of you -- I have only to look into your eyes and I know that you too have felt unequal to the task of washing a sink full of dirty dishes in a hot apartment. This is not tips for getting your…

Previously in What Your ____ Says About You: Posters and cats.  Sugar Cookie: It is deeply important to you that you be thought of as a welcoming person. You have been known to refer to your house as a "refuge," and sometimes hope that others say the same thing about it when you are not around. "Odor Remover": You are not messy because you do not care about cleanliness; you are messy because the thought…