This is how things used to be: you opened your mouth or you kept it shut. If you spoke up, there were risks.

Editor's Note: This story was published while about 500 Ordain Women participants were preparing to enter Temple Square, during the Mormon Church's General Conference on April 5. A few weeks earlier, the Church had restated its commitment to keeping the meeting males-only, and requested that members of Ordain Women and the media stay away from the area. Wearing pants to church was one of those wild, screeching ideas that barrels into an otherwise normal day. Stephanie…