“Well, why did you do it? Are you some sort of jerk or something?”

(Relatedly, but also un-, I have never felt anything other than cringing disappointment when I see that someone has published an open letter on the internet. It is an embarrassment to your eternal soul. This is what you look like when you do it. Knee-length shorts, clenched fists, floppy hair and all. He may be in the right, but that doesn’t make you respect him.)